Love is a rose in your own being. But prepare your being - dispel the darkness and the unconscious. Become more and more alert and aware, and love will come on its own accord, in its own time. You need not worry about it.
Don’t seek, don’t search, don’t ask, don’t knock, don’t demand—relax. If you relax, it comes. If you relax, it is there. If you relax, you start vibrating with it.
It does not matter if you are a rose or a lotus or a marigold.
What matters is that you are flowering.